THE
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WEDDING
A COMPLETE GUIDE
TABLE OF CONTENTS
Full of tips and tricks to help plan a wedding that photographs well, while still being full of personality.
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These are more than just photographs.
The photographs taken on your wedding day will be the longest lasting memento from the day; it's essential that the task of taking them is in the right hands.
Believe it or not, the day whizzes by very quickly. You'll be getting ready, you'll blink, and then the reception is over. You should be responsible for one thing only: having an AMAZING day.
Leave the time-freezing & memory-capturing to us. We got you.
creating a budget
Once you have a list of all the grandiose items on your wedding planning bucket list, make a separate list: want vs. need. Separate the vendors into those two categories. Here’s what I would do to organize the need category, in descending order:
- Venue
- Food
- Photographer
- Decor
- DJ/Band
- Planner
- Officiant (I put this last because maybe you already have a friend or family member who is/can get ordained)
Here’s a list of some vendors and items that may be in your wedding planning want category that couples have said they spent TOO MUCH money on:
- Flowers
- Makeup and hair
- Attire
- Invitations
- Catering
- Things to keep in mind while creating your budget:
Is this vendor a boutique/mom & pop type business?
What goes into their pricing?
Do they give each couple their full attention?
Do they only take on a certain amount of events per year?
Is there a travel fee?
creating a budget
ENGAGE
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prepping for your engagement session
what to wear
An engagement photoshoot is a great opportunity for you to showcase your relationship and personalities. It’s also a wonderful way to practice in front of the camera in a less formal setting. Your engagement photos should be fun, but picking engagement photo outfits can feel overwhelming. You’ll likely use these photos for save the dates, a wedding website, and countless instagram posts, so you’re going to want to look and feel your best.
From cozy fall and winter outfits, to spring and summer-friendly t-shirts and dresses, read on for all our recommendations and tips.
Use the Location As Inspiration
Have an Outfit Change
Accessorize
Be Bold
Complimentary Colors
Just Say No (to trends)
Take Off Your Apple Watch Or Fitbit.
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Each couple likely has a place or two that is sentimental and special for them. With each location comes different engagement photo outfit pieces that will complement it. If you’re planning on taking your photos at the beach, you should opt for something that can get wet and sandy.
Think: statement pieces. Like Elisabeth Sparkle's iconic yellow trench (look it up if you haven't seen The Substance).
When you and your partner are trying to decide what to wear, your goal shouldn’t be to match. Instead, you should try to complement each other’s outfits. Play with layering, similar textures, and complementary colors (red/magenta & green, yellow & purple, or orange & blue).
When you and your partner are trying to decide what to wear, your goal shouldn’t be to match. Instead, you should try to complement each other’s outfits. Play with layering, similar textures, and complementary colors (red/magenta & green, yellow & purple, or orange & blue).
Thank us later.
A second outfit is great if you're planning on photographing in two different locations. I would at the very least recommend carrying a 2nd pair of comfy shoes, just in case.
Whether it’s heirloom jewelry or a versatile new bag/clutch, accessories are a great way to mix up your look. They’re easy enough to slip on and off, so you can opt to have them or not during your photos. It also makes for some great variety/detail photos.
prepping for your engagement session
location
why the location matters
There is no right or wrong answer to WHERE your engagement photos should be taken. It is tough to choose, especially in New York where there are so many unique spots.
Do you have a favorite spot to go to with your partner?
Is there a location that's especially sentimental or essential to the development of your relationship?
If you don't have any particular places in mind, we'll find a spot for you. A place to make some new memories.
hiring vendors
vendor recommendations
Your wedding vendors should be made up of people you trust; people you know have your best interests at heart, as well a similar priorities.
Don't be afraid to ask all of your questions during initial meetings and consultations. I can only speak for us, but we always appreciate an open and honest dialogue not only about our process and what you can expect from us, but also about how we are different from others.
There is a perfect vendor team for everyone, they are waiting for you to pop into their inbox.
enter
tainment
catering & cake
venues
florals
beauty
officiant
Amanda's Errands and Events
Ani Wolff
Caterina Weddings
Emlan Events
Gathered East
Joyful Events by Steph
LCR Events
Love n Lace Weddings
Mavinhouse Events
Poppy & Lynn
Simply Styled Events
Weddings by Debra
Whitney Events
1 Hotel Brooklyn Bridge
501 Union
Bedell Cellars
Blue Hill at Stone Barns
Burden Kahn Mansion
Brooklyn Botanical Garden
Bryant Park Grill
Chesterwood
The Foundry
Larchmont Yacht Club
Liberty Warehouse
Lotte New York Palace
Merchant's House Museum
MyMoon Brooklyn
New York Botanical Garden
Park Chateau
Ravel Hotel
River Cafe
The Roundhouse
Tavern on the Green
Troutbeck
William Vale
Windham Manor
The Wythe
A Lily Among Thorns
Ahna Han
Buds of Brooklyn
Fern Botanica
Floral Fantasies by Sara
Floraland Weddings & Events
Glamorous Event Planners
Hana Floral
Hanato NYC
Olivia Howard Designs
Starbright NYC
Stefan Floral Decor
Stems Brooklyn
Stemtations
Verde Flowers
Abigail Kirch
Baked NYC
Bakeworks NJ
Big Dimps BBQ
Blue Hill Farm
Bryant Park Grill
Cathedrale
Cici's Cakery
Dino BBQ
Elegant Affairs Off Premise Catering
Empire Cake
Everything Lulu
Fig & Pig
Il Buco
Jillicious Foods
La Tulipe Desserts
Luckybird Bakery
MyMoon Brooklyn
Nine Cakes
Sweet Peace
Tacombi
Wild Flour
Abigail Kirch
Baked NYC
Bakeworks NJ
Big Dimps BBQ
Blue Hill Farm
Bryant Park Grill
Cathedrale
Cici's Cakery
Dino BBQ
Elegant Affairs
Empire Cake
Everything Lulu
Fig & Pig
Il Buco
Jillicious Foods
La Tulipe Desserts
Luckybird Bakery
MyMoon Brooklyn
Nine Cakes
Sweet Peace
Tacombi
Wild Flour
After Hours Ent.
Alex and Amir DJ-Orchestras
Around Town Ent.
Atomic Funk Project
CafÉ Wha?
Dalton Events
DJ Dina Regine
DJ Sam French
Élan Artists
Hank Lane
June Events
J Tucker & the Krewe
On The Move Events
Silver Arrow Band
The BB Salon
Beaute Plans
Beautified by Em
Beauty Icon NYC
Beauty by Bimmy
Bond Beauty Group
Deanna Abraham Beauty
Dolled up by Dee
Elle B Makeup Team
Essie Cohen Makeup
Ethereal Artistry by Karla
Gab's Glam
Hello Lovely KC
Lemondy NYC
Looks by GiGi
The Luminous Bride
Makeup & Hair Co.
Miss Harlequin Makeup & Hair
Stacie Ford Beauty Co.
Two 01 Hair
Vjosa MUA
planning
WHEN TO BOOK YOUR VENDORS
16-9 months before
8-6 months before
VENUES:
The venue you choose in the wedding planning process is likely the first big vendor decision you will make. This choice will determine your wedding date, and put the biggest dent into your budget.
It is recommended that your wedding venue is chosen between 16 and 9 months before your desired wedding date. The location you decide on may also have some peak & off peak pricing differences, so be sure to ask about that if it applies.
PLANNERS:
For some, hiring a wedding planner is basically step one after getting engaged. For others, a wedding coordinator may not come along until after the date and venue have been decided. It is possible to plan a wedding without hiring a coordinator, but they may have some suggestions or vendor recommendations that you can utilize.
ENTERTAINMENT:
As soon as you book your wedding venue, you should plan out your DJ or band. Due to high demand, most entertainment books out over one year in advance. Something that we find is becoming more and more popular is a live music/instrument element alongside a DJ. This way, it’s like the best of both worlds!
PHOTOGRAPHY/VIDEOGRAPHY:
While wedding planning, you may come to realize that photography is probably one of the most important investments you will make on your wedding day. It may sound biased coming from wedding photographers, but it’s true. After the cake is eaten, the flowers are dried, and the decor is returned, you are left with your photos (and video, too). Your photos will be cherished for generations.
CATERERS & CAKE:
Due to how much work goes into planning a full menu and creating recipes/cake designs, it's best to figure out who your caterer will be soon after booking your venue. This will take so much stress off your plate (literally) and prevent scrambling to try to find food to feed your guests.
FLORISTS
Wedding florists are usually the vendors that people are shocked to find out how quickly they will affect their budget. Flowers are not cheap, even less so if they need to be imported from another country. Make sure you have a good idea of what your wedding colors/theme will be. Some advice from my friend after planning her own wedding: “Don’t spend too much money on flowers, especially if you’re getting married outdoors. You can’t take it with you!
HAIR AND MAKEUP:
You should try to book your hair and makeup artist at least 8 months before your wedding. If you are having an engagement session, try to time your hair and makeup trial around the same time. You’ll be able to test the wearability of your hair and makeup while taking photos for about two hours. It’s not as long as a wedding day, but try to keep it on all day! This way, you’ll have bomb makeup and hair for your engagement photos and above all, you get to put the look to the test.
OFFICIANT:
Unless you have a close friend or family member who is (or willing to get) ordained, you'll need an officiant. The right officiant will assist you in writing your vows, planning the outline of the ceremony, and getting to know you both as individuals and as a couple.
ACCOMMODATIONS AND TRANSPORTATION:
If you have guests coming from out of town or if you are anticipating needing lodging for your vendor team, make sure to book a block of hotel suites at the closest hotel. When you have a different location for getting ready, ceremony, and reception, you will need transportation. It's best to secure a car ahead of time instead of trying to rely on uber or lyft. Trust us.
wedding attire
Monique Lhuillier
Mr. Ned
Stuio Levana
Needle & Thread London
Elizabeth Dye
Eton Shirts
Bijou Bridal
Kleinfeld
Anthropologie
Retrofete
Elie Saab
Galia Lahav
Vera Wang
ASOS
Carol Hannah
Never Fully Dressed
ASTR The Label
Reformation
It may seem like there is a "right" or "wrong" way to dress on your wedding day. Let me be the first to say: there isn't.
I'm going to reassure you that there are truly no rules for how to look on your wedding day. Dress however you like. It's your day.
Wear a jumpsuit, a pantsuit. Suspenders. A ballgown, a two-piece dress. Any color you want, any style you want. Heels, sneaker, boots, anything.
Here are some great places to find outfits:
getting ready checklist
1. Invitation suite
2. Jewelry
3. Flowers
4. Shoes
5. Pretty hangers
6. Champagne (& OJ)
7. PJs & robes
8. Perfume or cologne
9. Deodorant
10. Rings & boxes
11. Vows or letters
12. Emergency kit (motrin, band-aids, safety pins, crochet hook, tampons, pads)
13. Music/speaker
14. Snacks & drinks
FOR BRIDES & ALL WHO IDENTIFY
FOR grooms & ALL WHO IDENTIFY
Try to nail down your getting ready space in advance. Although we'll be prepared for any lighting situation, it helps a lot if it is well lit, has plenty of windows, and has some space to move around freely. Also, we'll make sure any clutter or in-the-way furniture is moved so a to not be eye sores in the photos!
Some things to have ready for your photographer to document: the rings, bouquets, invitation suite, shoes, accessories, etc.
If you're not getting your hair and makeup done, it may seem like you have much more time to get ready. This is a farce. Carve out some extra time, just in case. Some things to consider:
How to tie a bowtie/tie, finding your matching socks, making sure hair flyaways are tucked away, lax time for games, cigars, portraits, general tomfoolery.
Make sure to have all your details in order for your photographer. We like to capture: buttoning the shirt, tying the tie, putting the jacket on, lacing shoes, etc.
first look
A first look is some time set aside after getting ready before the ceremony where the spouses-to-be get to see each other in their full wedding getup for the first time.
Some also choose to do a first look with a parent, or their wedding party. It can get very emotional (I have cried at all of them).
We always recommend a first look because it allows for a LOT of flexibility in your wedding day timeline. How, you ask?
When you have a first look, this not only gives you the opportunity for solo portraits, but also gives you the opportunity to take all the wedding party and family photos ahead of time. If you're not staying separated the entire time pre-ceremony, it's easy to get everyone together and knock out all the photos so you can enjoy cocktail hour later.
It's all relative, though, as the whole day is dependent on two things: the ceremony time, and the sunset time. Figure those two things out and the rest falls right into place.
I want to start out by saying: at almost every wedding we have shot AND helped with the timeline (maybe 90%), we have been ahead of schedule. This is because we account for about 15-20 minutes extra during each segment of the day. Since we know pretty much exactly how long certain photos will take, we are able to accurately predict the timing for each portion of the day.
For example, let's say the ceremony starts at 4:00 PM, and you want to take formal family photos before it begins. A good time to start photos would be around 2:30 PM. In the timeline, we'll have the photo time carved out between 2:30 - 3:30 PM, giving you 30 minutes to wind down pre-ceremony even if we use the full amount of time. In reality, it will probably only take about 30-45 minutes for these photos ESPECIALLY if everyone is on time!
Another thing to account for: the sunset. We all love golden hour portraits, as this type of light provides super flattering and dynamic shadows and tones. Each time of day presents its own set of unique challenges, though, and we welcome them all.
Getting ready photos
First look
Family photos
Ceremony
Cocktail hour
Golden hour portraits
Reception begins
Dinner / dancing
Cake cutting
More dancing / fun
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the ceremony
let's get MARRIED
If your ceremony is outdoors, think about how the light will fall on you during that time. Scout out the area when the lighting is similar -- we usually do this a week before the wedding. If your ceremony is at high noon the sun will be directly above you, casting a harsh shadow under your eyes and nose; you also may be squinting. Keep this in mind!
Some other tip and general info: make sure your officiant scoots away after instructing you to kiss. This ensures a nice, clean final image of your first kiss as newlyweds.
family portraits
We've been lucky enough to be able to crank this part out in 40 minutes or less, but it's best to set aside at LEAST one hour for this part. Here are the ways to ensure it runs smoothly:
- Have a concise, clear list of your family members/VIPs and their combinations. Have this ready at least 3 weeks prior to your wedding day.
- Make sure everyone is on time (or early) and in the pre-determined location. If you have a planner or on-site attendant, they should be in charge of this.
- Take the wedding party photos during the getting ready/first look portion of the day in order to save time.
wedding party photos
After prep, you can bring both sides of the wedding party together during your first look and finish the morning/afternoon with a group photo.
Easy peasy!
couple portraits
This portion of the day usually happens around golden hour - the hour right before the sun is fully down. It gives us beautiful golden light, highlighted skin, dynamic shadows, all that good stuff.
If your venue is super spacious, it's best to explore all of that space and take advantage of all our time.
If you'd rather utilize the scenery at a nearby park or if you have a special place in mind, it's very important to account for that (travel time) in the timeline. Don't want anyone missing too much cocktail hour or reception time!
If you don't want to be pressed for time, we can book a separate session just for this part of the day. Like an engagement session, but in full wedding day attire.
This portion of the day usually happens around golden hour - the hour right before the sun is fully down. It gives us beautiful golden light, highlighted skin, dynamic shadows, all that good stuff.
If your venue is super spacious, it's best to explore all of that space and take advantage of all our time.
If you'd rather utilize the scenery at a nearby park or if you have a special place in mind, it's very important to account for that (travel time) in the timeline. Don't want anyone missing too much cocktail hour or reception time!
If you don't want to be pressed for time, we can book a separate session just for this part of the day. Like an engagement session, but in full wedding day attire.
Let's eat
hosting THE BEST DINNER PARTY OF YOUR LIFE
Don't go too crazy here (remember: catering is something couples have admitted spending too much $$ on), but keep in mind that this is your chance to have the dinner party of your dreams. Wow your friends and family with a meal they'll never forget, set at a table with thoughtful details and designs.
There's only so much you can take home and save, though. To quote a deeply flawed favorite character of mine, Don Draper: make it simple, but significant.
Arrange for a curated playlist to play while everyone is enjoying their food. I say a playlist and not your already hired musical talent because, well, they have to eat too! Which reminds me: don't. forget. to. feed. your. vendors. Chances are, the last thing we ate was a granola bar or a forkful of hors d'oeuvres during cocktail hour.
reception
let's party
let's party
Here are some fun, miscellaneous things to consider, as well as some important reminders for your reception.
1. You don't have tot do the bouquet/garter toss. Don't get pressured into it.
2. Think about the mood you want to set with the music (especially if you're having videography services as well). Are we thinking lots of disco or dance music that echoes Studio 54? Or are you more into jazz? Pop?
3. Pick up some cheap fujifilm FLASH cameras from Walgreens/CVS and leave them on the tables for your guests. Your friends and family can snap photos throughout the night from their perspective, and we'll happily develop the film for you and create some memorable print boxes or an album.
4. Section off a portion of your cocktail hour or reception for games like billiards, cornhole, foosball, etc.
5. Some things that make for GREAT images: smashing piñatas, going swimming, sparklers, etc.
the send off
Send offs are not mandatory, of course. However, if you'd really like it documented BUT you only have your photographer until the first hour of your reception, fake it!
Consider it a test run - but keep it between the wedding party if you don't want everyone thinking the reception is over LOL.
Have someone make a toast and everyone hold their glasses high, throw some rice or lots of itty bitty confetti, get some sparklers, make a grand exit down the stairs, or even jump in the pool/ocean if it's warm enough.
Like I said before: there are no rules.
after the wedding
Some photographers may wait until the immediate memories of the wedding day fade in order to send the finished photos (1-3 months).
That's nice and all, but we do things a little differently. The entirety of our weekday schedules are (mostly) dedicated to editing. You'll have a small gallery of 30-50 sneak peek images within 12-24 hours, and the full gallery within - or less than - 2 weeks.
After I photographed my friend's wedding in Italy, I was editing on the plane. He received the images shortly after I got home from the airport.
how to download your gallery
how to print your photos
We use a platform called Pic-Time to send all of our galleries.
The platform enables you to "heart" images you love, so you can quickly access your favorite shots. You are also able to download everything in its original size, watermark-free.
We are always on standby if you need help, plus the customer support on the platform itself is excellent if you have questions!
There is quite an extensive store attached to the gallery that your images live in. In the store, you can choose from a variety of printed products. Including, but not limited to:
Prints (framed, matted, etc.)
Calendars
Fine art albums
Lay-flat albums
Heirloom glass print boxes
+ more
wedding albums
Don't let your photos stay trapped behind the screen.
An album lets you show off the quality of your images and becomes a tangible heirloom that can be passed down.
With choices from 8x11 glossy-cover magazines, to fine art velvet and suede cover albums, there's a little something for everyone.
Oh, and the gallery platform will even design it for you based on your favorite images. I usually design them all myself, though.
thank you.
We hope this guide gave you a bit of insight of what your wedding day will be like, as well as what it will be like to work with us.
You're the reason we get to do what we love, and we can't thank you enough for putting your trust in us to capture this day for you.
